Veronica Valli & Chip Somers
Veronica Valli, Jennifer Matesa
51: Sober Sex with Jennifer Matesa
51: Sober Sex with Jennifer Matesa
51: Sober Sex with Jennifer Matesa
Wednesday 15th May 2019
Jennifer Matesa discusses sober sex, childhood trauma, and rediscovering intimacy in recovery on this episode of Soberful.
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48 minutes
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Veronica Valli & Chip Somers
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Sobriety Toolkit
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Get the buttons here!Navigating Sober Sex: Jennifer Matesa's Insights on Recovery and Intimacy
I think actually getting sober and being in recovery is about getting to know yourself and knowing who you are.
Sex and sobriety—two topics that often aren't discussed together. In this episode of Soberful, hosts Veronica Valli and Chip Somers are joined by Jennifer Matesa, author of 'Sex in Recovery: A Meeting between the Covers'. They dive into the complex relationship between addiction recovery and sexuality. **Trigger warning**: This episode includes discussions about adult content and childhood sexual trauma.
Jennifer shares the discoveries she made while interviewing people for her book, revealing how many in recovery have faced childhood sexual trauma. They explore how this trauma impacts their journey to sobriety and the importance of addressing it through trauma-informed therapy. The conversation also touches on the often-overlooked topic of talking to children about sexuality. Jennifer and Veronica discuss how avoiding these conversations can lead to dysfunctional sexual relationships later in life.
They highlight the need for open dialogue to foster healthy sexual development. Another significant point is how sobriety can change one's relationship with their body and sexual experiences. The trio reflects on the challenges and rewards of rediscovering intimacy without the crutch of alcohol. From the impact of pornography on young people's perceptions of sex to the normalization of same-sex relationships, this episode covers a wide range of issues that are crucial for anyone in recovery.
Whether you're navigating your own journey to sobriety or supporting someone who is, this episode offers valuable insights into the intersection of addiction, trauma, and sexuality. Jennifer Matesa's candid reflections make for an engaging and thought-provoking listen.