Fawna Asfaw on Grief, Addiction, and the Journey to Sobriety
The future you want is based on the habits you nurture today
Grief and addiction often walk hand in hand, creating a cycle that's tough to break. In this episode of the Sun & Moon Sober Living Podcast, host Mary Tilson sits down with Fawna Asfaw, a recovery coach and addiction counselor, to talk about her personal journey through these challenges. Fawna's story is both heart-wrenching and inspiring. As the only child of revolutionary activists, she faced immense loss when both her parents passed away prematurely.
Struggling to cope, she turned to alcohol, leading her down a path of addiction and shame. But Fawna's tale doesn't end there. She found the strength to rebuild her life, and now she helps others do the same. Throughout their conversation, Mary and Fawna touch on several key topics that resonate with anyone affected by addiction. They discuss how grief can be a root cause of addiction and why it's often considered a family disease.
Fawna also shares practical advice on detoxing, supporting friends who are struggling, and the surprising 'gift of desperation' that can push someone to seek help. One of the standout themes is the power of female friendships and finding a sober community. Fawna emphasizes how these connections have been vital in her recovery journey. She also talks about 'opposite action'—a technique that involves doing the opposite of what your addictive urges tell you to do—as a tool for emotional regulation.
If you're looking for hope and practical tips on overcoming addiction, this episode is a must-listen. Fawna's story is a testament to the resilience of the human spirit and the transformative power of community support. Tune in to hear how she turned her life around and how you can start building your path to a substance-free future.