Untangling Codependency: Nadia and Mark's Journey to Healthier Relationships
I became a rescuer as a child, and it was what defined me, and it was what I grew up being most proud of was that if there was a situation where somebody needed help, I would rush in and I would help and I'd become completely absorbed in that person's problem, and without really realizing that part of that was to distract from my own problems, because if you're looking after somebody else's, you're not looking after yourself.
Ever wondered if your relationship might be a bit too dependent? Nadia Sawalha and Mark Adderley tackle this tricky topic head-on in episode 33 of 'How To Stay Married (So Far)'. This candid duo opens up about their own experiences with codependency, offering a raw and relatable look into how it can creep into our lives without us even realizing it. Nadia reflects on her role as a 'rescuer', a part of her identity that took shape early on.
She shares how constantly putting others first led to neglecting her own needs, creating a cycle that's hard to break. Mark chimes in with his own story of codependency with his mother, shedding light on the emotional scars it left behind. Together, they explore the dangers of codependency, from compromising personal values to losing one's sense of self. They discuss the different ways codependency can show up in relationships and stress the importance of self-care and maintaining individuality.
But it's not all doom and gloom. Nadia and Mark also highlight the rewards of working through these challenges together. They share insights on how to build strong, healthy relationships and model positive behaviors for their children. Their honest conversations are sprinkled with humor and warmth, making this episode both engaging and enlightening. If you're grappling with codependency or just curious about the dynamics of healthy relationships, this episode offers valuable perspectives and practical advice.
Tune in for a heartfelt discussion that might just inspire you to take a closer look at your own relationships.