So if somebody else were to make a mistake or were to fall or were to, you know, screw something up, feeling like I needed to say: oh it's ok, you know I'm, so I'm dumb and I it was my fault because I shouldn't have left this here and I should have picked that up for you and I should have made sure that it wasn't. That doesn't mean that you have to do the same so that they feel like they're not alone.