Keeping the Spark Alive: Tips for Intimacy in Long-Term Relationships
All of us experience the honeymoon phase, The First Few Months where intimacy is no problem. But practically I was looking at those various phases of a relationship that I spoke about earlier, like the honeymoon phase, the trying to be parents phase, the newly married phase, the newly parent phase, whatever that is, and recognize that I think what happened for me in the past has been a transition from one phase into the next, without consciously transitioning.
Has the intimacy in your marriage taken a backseat? Do you find yourself yearning to rekindle that flame but unsure where to start? You're not alone. In this episode of the Call to Courage Podcast, hosts Gareth Pickering and Matt Dahse dive into the nitty-gritty of maintaining passion and connection in long-term relationships. They tackle the often unspoken challenges couples face, from the changing rhythms of intimacy to the cultural awkwardness surrounding sex.
Matt, now a new father, opens up about his journey back to intimacy with his partner as they navigate the post-childbirth landscape. He shares their commitment to radical honesty and how they use a 'safe word' to create a pause button in their intimate moments, giving each other space to regroup. Gareth, on the other hand, talks about his four-year relationship with his partner and their decision not to have children.
He discusses how they keep things spicy and maintain their connection through honest communication. This episode isn't just for those in the honeymoon phase; it's for anyone looking to deepen their connection and reignite their relationship. Gareth and Matt provide practical tools and real-life examples that you can apply in your own life. Whether it's using safe words, committing to radical honesty, or simply understanding the different phases of a relationship, you'll find valuable insights here.
So, if you're ready to bring back the spark and build a deeper connection with your partner, tune in to this enlightening episode of Call to Courage. It's a candid conversation filled with practical advice and heartfelt stories that will inspire you to take action.