Integrity in Dating: Staying True to Yourself
Episode Overview
Write down past mistakes and examine your motives. Be upfront about your flaws early in a relationship. Focus on being trustworthy to attract trust. Use levity when discussing past mistakes. Stay connected to your true self.
Being open and vulnerable means being honest and being open.
In this episode of Levelheaded Talk, Dr. Andrea Vitz and Jon Leon Guerrero dive into the intricate world of dating with a focus on maintaining personal integrity. Dr. Vitz, known for her expertise in emotional sobriety, addresses listener questions about dating while staying true to oneself. The episode kicks off with a query from a listener who's worked on self-esteem and is now ready to date again. How does one stay open and vulnerable without repeating past mistakes? Dr.
Vitz advises writing down past mistakes in detail and examining the motives behind them. By understanding these motives, you can avoid falling into old patterns. She emphasises the importance of being upfront about your flaws early in a relationship. This honesty not only helps you stay true to yourself but also sets clear expectations for your partner.
Jon Leon Guerrero adds a humorous touch by noting the listener's reference to dating multiple men, suggesting a healthy approach to finding the right partner. Dr. Vitz further explores the concept of trust, advising that being trustworthy yourself is crucial to attracting and developing a trusting relationship. She shares her own experiences, admitting past mistakes with levity and encouraging listeners to do the same.
The episode wraps up with a reminder that maintaining integrity in dating is about being honest, open, and connected to who you truly are. Whether you're new to dating or returning after a break, this episode offers valuable insights into building meaningful relationships while staying true to yourself.