I think our dynamics will evolve as my dependency on my father will change as I bring a man into my life, in my world. And now, being a professional with years of working experience, I'm not calling her every time. I just don't need you in that way anymore. But for both of them I do need them to see that I am capable, I am able, that my experiences matter too, that the wisdom I bring to the table is of value not just to me but also to them.