Unconditional Love vs. Unconditional Attention: Setting Healthy Boundaries
Episode Overview
Unconditional love is an undying, energetic promise of connection. Attention can be withheld based on behaviour and respect for boundaries. Setting and communicating boundaries clearly is crucial. Pre-relationship coaching can help establish strong foundations. Balancing love with respect and responsibility improves relationships.
You are not entitled to my company, my attention, anything. But you absolutely are going to get my love.
In this episode of Levelheaded Talk, Dr. Andrea Vitz and Jon Leon Guerrero tackle the fascinating topic of unconditional love versus unconditional attention. With a mix of humour and deep reflection, they explore the often misunderstood boundaries that define our relationships. Dr. Vitz simplifies the concept of love as an undying, energetic promise of connection that transcends circumstances.
However, she highlights that attention is a different beast entirely - it's something that can be withheld based on behaviour and respect for personal boundaries. The discussion gets real as they dive into scenarios where love remains but attention must be withdrawn, stressing the importance of setting and communicating boundaries clearly. Jon adds his perspective, noting how misunderstandings often arise from unspoken boundaries.
The duo also touches on the idea of pre-relationship coaching, which sounds like a fun and enlightening way to set a strong foundation for future partnerships. This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to understand the nuances of emotional sobriety and improve their relationships by balancing love with healthy boundaries.