Finding Common Ground: Matt Scoletti on Building Meaningful Connections
Focus on what connects the two of you, not what differentiates you two. Focus on what connected you in the play or the game that you saw, not what you hated.
Ever find yourself focusing on what sets you apart from others? Matt Scoletti did too, and it nearly sabotaged his relationships. In this thought-provoking episode of 'Livin the DREAM with Matt Scoletti', Matt dives into his journey of shifting from seeing differences to embracing connections. Imagine meeting someone and immediately zeroing in on what makes you different. Years ago, Matt would do just that, letting those differences create barriers.
But now, he’s all about finding common ground and being curious about what makes us unique. Matt opens up about his decade-long struggle with alcoholism and how changing his mindset played a crucial role in his recovery. Instead of judging others or himself for past mistakes, he learned to focus on shared experiences and mutual understanding. It’s a refreshing take that encourages us to see beyond the headlines and stories that often shape our perceptions.
This episode is packed with practical tips for building stronger relationships. Matt suggests asking questions and being genuinely curious about the people you meet. By doing so, you not only learn more about them but also discover surprising connections that can enrich your life. If you’re tired of the divisiveness promoted by social media and news outlets, this episode offers a much-needed perspective shift. It’s a call to look beyond our differences and find the threads that connect us all.
Whether you’re on a journey to sobriety, trying to mend a strained relationship, or simply looking to understand people better, Matt’s insights are invaluable. So, why not take a break from the noise and tune in? You might just find that what connects us is far more powerful than what divides us.