The Narcissist's Obsession: Why They Chase When You Pull Away
Episode Overview
Narcissists are addicted to the chase, not the person. They build a false self to mask deep insecurities. Real intimacy terrifies them because it exposes their true selves. Your indifference is their kryptonite. Focus on your healing to break free from their control.
They are not chasing you; they are chasing their lost reflection.
Ever wondered what makes a narcissist obsessed with you? In this eye-opening episode, Danish Bashir, a narcissistic abuse recovery professional, breaks down the twisted psychology behind a narcissist's behaviour. He explains that narcissists are addicted to the chase, not the person. They crave the thrill of pursuit and lose interest once they feel they have 'won' you. Danish uses light-hearted humour and real-life examples to make complex psychological concepts easy to understand.
He highlights that narcissists build a false self to mask their deep-seated insecurities, and when someone genuinely cares for them, it terrifies them. They can't handle real intimacy because it would mean exposing their true, wounded selves. Instead, they thrive on control and manipulation. Danish's insights are both enlightening and practical, providing valuable advice on how to break free from the toxic cycle of narcissistic abuse.
You'll learn why your indifference is their kryptonite and how to reclaim your power by focusing on your healing. This episode is a must-listen for anyone dealing with a narcissist or trying to recover from narcissistic abuse. Danish's compassionate and straightforward approach makes it easy to understand the complex dynamics at play. Don't miss out on this chance to gain a deeper understanding of narcissistic behaviour and learn how to protect yourself from their manipulative tactics.