Making Tough Choices: Staying or Leaving a Relationship with Addiction
Just know that it's okay if you don't know right now what you want to do. But it's also so important to remember that you DO have control over your decision.
Ever find yourself caught in the mental tug-of-war of whether to stay or leave a relationship with someone battling addiction? Michelle Anderson gets it. In this episode of 'Love Over Addiction', she dives into the exhausting decision-making process that many face. It's okay if you don't have all the answers right now, but remember, you do have control over your choices.
Michelle shares a heartfelt story about her daughter's recent big decision, shedding light on the importance of supporting independence and staying true to your values. She stresses that waiting for your loved one to get sober can be a dangerous game, as addiction is a complex neurological disease that only the person struggling can address. Instead of feeling stuck, Michelle encourages listeners to focus on life beyond addiction. Curiosity and education are key tools in navigating this challenging journey.
She reminds us that no therapist or external person can change someone unless they are ready to change themselves. Having backup plans and supporting your loved one's independence are also crucial steps. Listeners will leave this episode feeling more informed and supported in making the best decision for themselves and their loved ones. It's not just about coping; it's about finding hope and strength in the face of tough choices.