You Don’t Always Have To Try So Hard

You Don’t Always Have To Try So Hard

Love Over Addiction

When we love someone suffering from addiction, we try hard all the time. Our day-to-day life is harder than most, and we know that it requires more energy to manage our relationships.  And let’s be honest: it’s hard. Sometimes we try so darn...

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11:1812 Apr 2020

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Taking a Break: Self-Compassion in the Face of Addiction

Take a break, take The Month off, just relax, take a deep breath, know that you are absolutely doing your best, and here's the deal. Your best is good enough. It's better than good enough. It's wonderful.

Loving someone who struggles with addiction can feel like an endless uphill battle. In this episode of 'Love Over Addiction', Michelle Anderson delves into the often-overlooked importance of giving yourself permission to stop trying so hard. She starts by sharing a story about a formula racing champion who believes in working harder than anyone else to succeed. But Anderson flips the script, reminding us that relentless effort doesn't always lead to success, especially in relationships strained by addiction.

Anderson knows firsthand how exhausting it can be to constantly try to make things better. She offers a refreshing perspective: it's okay to take a break and be kind to yourself. 'Your best is good enough. It's better than good enough. It's wonderful,' she reassures listeners. This episode is all about embracing self-compassion and understanding that you don't need to have all the answers right now.

With her genuine and supportive tone, Anderson provides valuable advice on avoiding burnout and practicing patience. She emphasizes that taking care of yourself is not only okay but necessary. For anyone feeling overwhelmed by a loved one's addiction, this episode is a gentle reminder that it's perfectly fine to ease up and focus on your own well-being.

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