‘Will my therapist hurt me, too?’ On Relational Anxiety and Fragile Clients- Dr. Jon Frederickson is back!!‘Will my therapist hurt me, too?’ On Relational Anxiety and Fragile Clients- Dr. Jon Frederickson is back!!
Eggshell Transformations with Imi Lo
Dr. Jon Frederickson explores relational anxiety and fragile clients with Imi Lo on 'Eggshell Transformations'.
53:43•11 Nov 2022
Facing Relational Anxiety in Therapy: Insights with Dr. Jon Frederickson
“So it's as if you're asked to be an omnipotent therapist who could do the work of two people.”
Have you ever wondered how past trauma shapes our relationships and therapy experiences? In this thought-provoking episode of 'Eggshell Transformations', Imi Lo welcomes back Dr. Jon Frederickson to dive into the world of relational anxiety and fragile clients. Dr. Frederickson, the author of 'Co-Creating Safety: Healing the Fragile Patient', shares his expertise on why some individuals, scarred by past relationships, struggle to trust again. This fear often leads to isolation and disconnection from others and themselves.
The conversation touches on various critical aspects, including why we project our feelings onto others, how anxiety is stored in our bodies, and the complexities of attachment styles. Dr. Frederickson also discusses the importance of therapists recognizing and validating these fears while helping clients gradually open up to new relationships. He emphasizes the need for a strong therapeutic alliance and understanding the internal structures that clients project onto their therapists.
With real-life examples and practical advice, this episode offers valuable insights for anyone dealing with relational anxiety or working in the field of therapy. Whether you're a therapist, a client, or someone interested in understanding human psychology better, this episode is a must-listen.

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