Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Why Narcissistic Parents Side With Their Child's Abuser
Why Narcissistic Parents Side With Their Child's Abuser
Why Narcissistic Parents Side With Their Child's Abuser
Wednesday 15th July 2020
Cynthia Bailey-Rug explores why narcissistic parents defend abusers, offering supportive insights for those affected.
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Get the buttons here!Understanding Why Narcissistic Parents Defend Abusers: Cynthia Bailey-Rug's Perspective
Remember when your narcissistic parent sides with someone who has hurt or abused you, it's just more evidence that your parent is the one with the problem, not you. Normal people don't side with abusers over victims.
Ever wondered why some parents side with those who hurt their own children? Cynthia Bailey-Rug tackles this unsettling topic in her podcast episode, shedding light on the perplexing behavior of narcissistic parents. Drawing from her own painful experiences, Cynthia recounts how her mother chose to support her abusive ex-husband despite clear evidence of his violence. This isn't an isolated incident; it's a pattern seen in many narcissistic families.
Cynthia dives into the reasons behind this behavior, explaining that narcissistic parents often feel jealous when their child receives attention, even if it's due to abuse. They crave the spotlight and can't stand being overshadowed, even by their child's suffering. Another reason is projection; they can't accept that abuse is wrong because it would mean acknowledging their own abusive tendencies. Instead, they twist reality to make the victim seem at fault.
This episode isn't just about identifying the problem; it's about understanding that the parent's actions are not a reflection of the child's worth. Cynthia offers a compassionate perspective, reminding listeners that normal, healthy parents do not side with abusers. Her insights provide a sense of validation and support for those grappling with similar issues. Whether you're dealing with narcissistic parents yourself or supporting someone who is, Cynthia's reflections offer valuable context and coping strategies.
Tune in to hear more about why narcissistic parents act this way and how to navigate these challenging relationships.