Why Narcissists Can't Stay Still: Unpacking the Restlessness
The deepest explanation to this behavior is their suppressed trauma, or all the shame, all the insecurities, everything dark that they have suppressed deep down in the chambers of their psyche.
Ever wondered why some people just can't seem to sit still? In this eye-opening episode, Danish Bashir, a seasoned expert in narcissistic abuse recovery, sheds light on the constant restlessness often exhibited by narcissists. This isn't just about fidgeting or an inability to relax; it's a deeper issue tied to their need for instant gratification and the underlying trauma that fuels their behavior.
Danish explains how this perpetual motion is more than a quirky habit—it's a coping mechanism rooted in deep-seated insecurities and unresolved emotional wounds. For those living with or close to a narcissist, this behavior can be exhausting and emotionally draining. Partners and family members often find themselves acting as mere extensions of the narcissist's ego, constantly catering to their needs and whims.
Danish stresses the importance of understanding this behavior without making sweeping generalizations, noting that while many people have trauma responses, the key issue with narcissists is their refusal to acknowledge or address their actions. This episode offers valuable insights into the complexities of narcissistic behavior and its impact on relationships, making it a must-listen for anyone seeking to understand or cope with these challenging dynamics.