Why We Fall for Those Who Can't Love Us Back
If you're like me and you're realizing that you are stuck dating or whatevering unavailable people, and if you get caught up in these, you might find yourself, like I did, realizing you are addicted to getting love from people that cannot give it to you.
Ever found yourself pining for someone who just can't or won't love you back? You're not alone. In this eye-opening episode of 'Codependent N’ Sh*t', Ash takes a deep dive into the patterns of love addiction and unhealthy relationships. Drawing from her own experiences, she breaks down why we fall into these traps and what it means for our emotional well-being.
Ash doesn’t just talk the talk; she walks the walk by sharing her personal journey, making her insights all the more relatable and impactful. She sheds light on how love addiction can manifest, often fueled by our own insecurities and past traumas. But it’s not all doom and gloom. Ash offers practical advice on how to identify if you’re caught in this cycle and, more importantly, how to break free.
She emphasizes the importance of self-love and setting healthy boundaries, making it clear that loving yourself is the first step to attracting healthier relationships. Therapy plays a big role in her discussion. Ash talks about how professional help can guide you through the maze of love addiction, helping you understand your patterns and how to change them. She also touches on the concept of conscious dating—being aware and intentional in your romantic pursuits to avoid falling back into old habits.
If you’re tired of being stuck in unhealthy relationships and are ready to make a change, this episode is a must-listen. By the end, you'll have a clearer understanding of love addiction and some solid steps to move forward. Tune in for a mix of heartfelt stories and actionable advice that can help you reclaim your emotional freedom.