Introducing Yourself in Recovery: The 'When In Rome' Approach
If we would get off of focusing on the symptom and focus on the true problem and the solution for that problem, we would stop kicking people out of meetings and calling people out publicly because they didn't say the right word and they didn't present themselves in the right manner.
Ever wondered why people introduce themselves differently in Twelve Step meetings? In this episode of 'Take 12 Recovery Radio', Monty Dale Meyer dives into the varied ways individuals present themselves, like 'Hi, I'm John and I'm an alcoholic' or 'My name is Lisa and I'm a drug addict'. But what does it all mean? Meyer unpacks the phrase 'When in Rome' and its relevance in recovery circles.
He argues that while these introductions might seem trivial, they play a crucial role in fostering a supportive and compassionate community. Rather than focusing on the exact words used, Meyer emphasizes respecting each person's unique journey and experiences. Throughout the episode, Meyer touches on broader themes like the impact of trauma on addiction, the healing power of compassion, and how music can be a source of strength in recovery.
He also pays tribute to those who have lost their lives to addiction and offers condolences to grieving families. Meyer's discussion is raw and thought-provoking, challenging listeners to reflect on their own experiences and how they engage with others in recovery. This episode encourages you to approach your recovery journey with an open heart and mind, focusing on genuine connections rather than rigid formalities.