Tanya and Jerry Gioia

Sober on Purpose

Tanya and Jerry Gioia

  • When Hope Becomes a Trap - Breaking Free from Toxic Hope — with Chaya Garcia

When Hope Becomes a Trap - Breaking Free from Toxic Hope — with Chaya Garcia

Thursday 20th March 2025

Learn how to break free from toxic hope and set healthy boundaries with Chaya Garcia. Essential advice for those loving someone with addiction.
45 minutes
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Breaking Free from Toxic Hope: Setting Boundaries with Chaya Garcia

Episode Overview

  • Shift your commitment from the addict to yourself.
  • Set clear boundaries to protect your peace.
  • Recognise and avoid enabling behaviours.
  • Understand the concept of toxic hope.
  • Prioritise self-love and self-care.
If you're not committed to yourself, you're going to go back to him and be like, well, you just need to change
In this episode of Sober on Purpose, Tanya Gioia and Chaya Garcia tackle the concept of 'toxic hope' and its impact on those loving someone with addiction. The episode sheds light on how clinging to the hope of change can lead to enabling behaviours and perpetuate a cycle of pain. Chaya discusses the importance of shifting your commitment from the addict to yourself, setting clear boundaries, and prioritising self-love.
By not tolerating unacceptable behaviours like name-calling or dishonesty, you can protect your peace and well-being. The conversation also touches on the emotional struggles involved and how to identify when you're stuck in a power struggle with the addict. This episode is packed with practical advice and real-life examples, making it a must-listen for anyone dealing with similar challenges. You'll walk away with a better understanding of how to create a healthy, loving environment for yourself and your family.
If you're tired of the emotional rollercoaster and ready to reclaim your joy, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable steps.