When family and friends are not in recoveryWhen family and friends are not in recovery
Encounter with Dr. Ken
Dr. Ken Buckle discusses managing recovery when family and friends aren't supportive, emphasizing self-care and setting healthy boundaries.
31:17•15 Aug 2020
Navigating Recovery Alone: Dr. Ken on Family Challenges
“We may learn to detach with love if we're really codependent with others, and this- maintaining healthy boundaries, this detaching with love can create problems in relationships. That may be dysfunctional because we're starting to get healthy, and so we have to recognize that things are different and that may create some problems temporarily.”
Ever felt like you're on a solo journey in your recovery, while your family and friends are still stuck in old habits? Dr. Ken Buckle dives into this common struggle in his podcast 'Encounter with Dr. Ken'. He unpacks the frustration and isolation that can come when your loved ones don't understand or support your progress. Dr. Ken emphasizes the importance of self-care and setting boundaries to protect your mental health.
He reminds us that we can't force others to change, and trying to do so can lead to more stress and conflict. Instead, he suggests 'detaching with love', a concept that involves creating healthy boundaries without imposing our expectations on others. This approach can be tough, especially when past actions have hurt those we care about, but it's a crucial step in maintaining our own recovery. Dr.
Ken also touches on the importance of patience and humility, both with ourselves and with our loved ones. He offers practical advice on how to navigate these tricky waters, including seeking counseling, spiritual direction, and support from 12-step programs. For those dealing with specific issues like pornography and infidelity, he provides additional resources to help guide the way. If you're finding it hard to balance your recovery with unsupportive family dynamics, this episode is a must-listen. Dr.
Ken's compassionate insights offer a beacon of hope and practical steps to help you stay on track.

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