Cynthia Bailey-Rug
Cynthia Bailey-Rug
When A Narcissistic Parent Is Dying
When A Narcissistic Parent Is Dying
When A Narcissistic Parent Is Dying
Thursday 23rd July 2020
Cynthia Bailey-Rug discusses coping with the death of a narcissistic parent, offering practical advice and personal reflections.
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Ignore advice from everybody when that time comes. God is the only one who knows best what you should do. Let him guide you.
Facing the death of a parent is never easy, but when that parent is a narcissist, the emotional landscape becomes even more treacherous. In this episode, Cynthia Bailey-Rug opens up about her personal journey through the death of her narcissistic father. She shares the intense pressure she felt from others urging her to visit him, despite knowing it would harm her mental and physical health.
Cynthia's reflections are a heartfelt guide for anyone in a similar situation, blending personal experience with practical advice. Cynthia emphasizes the importance of staying close to God during such trying times, seeking guidance and strength through prayer. She advises listeners to ignore unsolicited advice and instead let their faith guide them. Whether you need wisdom, strength, or courage, Cynthia encourages you to ask for it in prayer.
One of the key takeaways from this episode is the necessity of setting boundaries. Cynthia talks about the importance of blocking phone numbers, emails, or social media contacts from those who might not understand your decisions. She also stresses the importance of having realistic expectations—narcissists can be cruel until their last breath, so don’t expect a happy ending or an apology. The grief process is complex when dealing with a narcissistic parent.
You're not just mourning the loss of a parent but also the toxic relationship and any hope for future reconciliation. Cynthia acknowledges the mix of relief and guilt that can come with the end of such a relationship and advises against judging your feelings. Instead, she suggests focusing on self-care, speaking only with supportive friends or relatives, and journaling your thoughts.
Cynthia also touches on the practical aspects of dealing with a narcissistic parent's death, like planning the funeral and visiting the cemetery after everyone has left. She encourages listeners to read other people's stories for additional support and to take as much time as needed to process their emotions. This episode is a compassionate resource for anyone grappling with the death of a narcissistic parent.
Cynthia’s blend of personal anecdotes and practical advice offers a comforting hand to hold through one of life’s most challenging experiences.