Zoe Asher
Zoe Asher
What to do when you’re always the friend that initiates first…
What to do when you’re always the friend that initiates first…
What to do when you’re always the friend that initiates first…
Thursday 27th February 2025
Zoe Asher shares advice on handling the frustration of always initiating plans with friends. Learn how to transform your friendships.
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Episode Overview
- Have open and honest conversations about your feelings.
- Encourage friends to take the initiative sometimes.
- Focus on your emotions rather than blaming others.
- Recognise that some people may not realise they're not initiating.
- Use personal experiences to guide your approach.
The story I'm telling myself is that you don't actually want to hang out with me.
Ever felt like you're always the one making plans with friends? Zoe Asher gets it. In this episode of Accidentally Intentional, Zoe tackles the frustration of being the friend who always initiates. She shares personal stories and practical advice on how to handle this tricky dynamic without letting it fester into resentment. Zoe's been there—80% of the time, she's the one reaching out. She talks about how having open, honest conversations can transform your friendships and make them richer.
One memorable story involves a friend who bravely addressed her concerns, leading to a stronger bond. Zoe also gives tips on how to gently encourage your friends to take the initiative sometimes. By focusing on your feelings rather than accusing others, you can have more productive conversations. Plus, she offers a free guide to help you build meaningful friendships and destroy loneliness. So if you're tired of being the planner, or just want deeper connections, this episode is for you.
It's packed with relatable anecdotes and actionable steps to improve your relationships.