Brenda Zane
Brenda Zane, Dina Cannizzaro
What the Chinese Farmer Teaches Us About Parenting Kids Using Substances, with Dina Cannizzaro
What the Chinese Farmer Teaches Us About Parenting Kids Using Substances, with Dina Cannizzaro
What the Chinese Farmer Teaches Us About Parenting Kids Using Substances, with Dina Cannizzaro
Thursday 29th June 2023
Brenda Zane and Dina Cannizzaro share insights from the Chinese farmer parable on parenting through uncertainty and showing unconditional love.
38 minutes
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Brenda Zane
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Episode Overview
- Lessons from the story of the Chinese farmer and its relevance in difficult times
- Importance of showing unconditional love and being in control of how the child experiences the parent
- Navigating uncertainties and the need for self-awareness and connection with the child
- Emphasizing a positive and affirming message to show the child's capability of change
- Taking action without regrets and practical steps for coping and being healthy
There can be hope. And yes, not everybody's story ends the same. But you can decide how you want to present yourself in your loved one's life while you're doing the journey with them.
What can an ancient Chinese parable teach us about parenting kids who are struggling with substance use? Brenda Zane and Dina Cannizzaro dive into this intriguing question, sharing their personal experiences and insights in this episode of 'Hopestream'. Dina, a Stream advisor and a mom who has navigated her own child's severe substance misuse, joins Brenda to explore the wisdom hidden in the story of the Chinese farmer.
They discuss how the parable's message of radical skepticism and withholding judgment can be especially comforting and relevant for parents facing tough times. Brenda and Dina open up about their own journeys, highlighting the importance of maintaining control over how their children experience them, even amidst chaos. They talk about the power of showing unconditional love and the surprising ways that misfortune can sometimes lead to unexpected blessings.
Dina shares how her son's struggles taught her that she had her own recovery journey to undertake, emphasizing that parents need to take care of themselves too. The episode isn't just about surviving; it's about thriving through adversity. Brenda and Dina encourage parents to focus on what they can control and to adopt a positive, affirming approach that shows their children they are capable of change.
They also discuss practical steps parents can take to stay healthy and cope effectively during these challenging times. If you're a parent grappling with your child's substance use, this episode offers a blend of heartfelt stories, practical advice, and a dash of ancient wisdom to help you navigate the uncertainties ahead.