Mandy Friedman LPCC-S

SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities

Mandy Friedman LPCC-S

  • What is Weaponized Incompetence?

What is Weaponized Incompetence?

Monday 25th March 2024

Mandy Friedman and Tabitha McKinney explore weaponized incompetence, revealing signs and offering strategies to address this manipulative behavior in relationships.
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SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities
Author:
Mandy Friedman LPCC-S
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
Mindful Recovery
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Understanding Weaponized Incompetence: Unmasking Hidden Manipulation

Episode Overview

  • Identifying signs of weaponized incompetence and its impact on relationships
  • Exploring the manipulation tactics and gender role reinforcement
  • Discussing strategies like setting boundaries and having healthy conversations
  • Addressing the emotional implications of dealing with weaponized incompetence
  • Navigating the challenges of adjusting power dynamics in relationships
Resentment, stress, distrust, and feeling alone are just a few of the problems caused by weaponized incompetence. Recognising the signs and setting boundaries are crucial steps in addressing this manipulative dynamic.
Have you ever felt like your partner is just not pulling their weight, but it's hard to pinpoint why? Mandy Friedman, a seasoned counselor and the creator of SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities, dives into this very issue in her episode on weaponized incompetence. Joined by Tabitha McKinney, they break down this covert form of manipulation that can wreak havoc on relationships.
They discuss who tends to use this tactic, the red flags to watch out for, and the emotional toll it can take on the unsuspecting partner. The conversation doesn't shy away from exploring how traditional gender roles and emotional immaturity play into this toxic behavior. But it's not all doom and gloom—Mandy and Tabitha also share practical advice on setting boundaries and fostering healthier communication to combat this issue.
If you've ever found yourself frustrated by a partner's 'helplessness', this episode might just offer the clarity and tools you need.