Inside the Mind of a Narcissist: Why They Miss You
Episode Overview
Narcissists miss the control and power they had over you, not the actual person. They use manipulative tactics like gaslighting and employing 'flying monkeys' to lure you back. Personal anecdotes highlight the deceptive strategies used by narcissists. Understanding their mindset can help you protect yourself from further harm. Never fall for their traps; staying strong is crucial for your healing.
They don’t actually miss you; they miss inflicting emotional pain.
Ever wondered what goes on in a narcissist's mind when they miss you? In this episode, Danish Bashir, a seasoned Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Professional and Certified Clinical Trauma Specialist, sheds light on the twisted thought processes of narcissists. Unlike most people who miss the actual person, narcissists miss the power, control, and validation they once extracted from you. They don't feel genuine longing; instead, they crave the chaos and dominance they had over you.
Danish explains how narcissists manipulate situations to lure you back into their toxic web, often employing 'flying monkeys'—third parties who act on their behalf to guilt-trip or gaslight you into reconnecting. With personal anecdotes, including his experiences with his covertly narcissistic mother, Danish provides a raw and honest look into the narcissist's mind. He emphasises that falling for their traps only leads to more pain and manipulation.
The episode serves as a cautionary tale, urging you to stay strong and not be swayed by their deceptive tactics. If you're dealing with a narcissist or trying to recover from such a relationship, this episode is a must-listen. It offers valuable insights into the narcissist's psyche and practical advice on how to protect yourself from further harm. So, why should you listen? Because understanding their mindset can be your first step towards true healing and freedom.