Balancing Support and Enabling: Insights from Rabbi Kalish
Episode Overview
Understand the difference between enabling and supportive care. Learn how love and acceptance can foster genuine growth. Explore the emotional challenges faced by educators. Discover the importance of self-care in maintaining passion. Hear personal anecdotes that highlight transformative moments.
When you are loved, you can actually be courageous to look inside yourself in places and get honest and figure out because you're accepted
Rabbi Daniel Kalish joins Sony Perlman in this episode of BrainStorm to tackle the challenging topic of enabling. Rabbi Kalish, known for his impactful work at the Mesivta of Waterbury, brings a wealth of experience and thought-provoking perspectives to the table. The conversation kicks off with an exploration of the criticisms faced by educators and leaders who are accused of enabling unhealthy behaviours.
Rabbi Kalish shares his personal journey and the evolution of his approach, emphasising the importance of love, acceptance, and creating a safe space for growth. The discussion delves into how filling the 'gas tank' of a young person with love and support can empower them to take charge of their lives and make positive changes. Sony and Rabbi Kalish also touch on the emotional toll of their work, the attacks they face, and the resilience required to continue their mission.
They highlight the need for self-care and maintaining one's passion and curiosity in this demanding field. Rabbi Kalish's anecdotes about his students and the transformative power of genuine care provide a deeply moving narrative that underscores the episode's key message: real change happens when people feel truly seen and valued. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in understanding the delicate balance between support and enabling, and how to foster genuine growth in others.
Tune in to hear these inspiring insights and learn how love and acceptance can lead to profound transformations.