Stephanie Kostopoulos & Beth Demme
Steph & Beth
We All See It. But What Do We Say? (with Emily)
We All See It. But What Do We Say? (with Emily)
We All See It. But What Do We Say? (with Emily)
Friday 21st February 2020
Emily talks about living with a visible disability, online dating, and personal advocacy on 'Discovering Our Scars'.
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Get the buttons here!Facing Disability: Emily's Journey and Insights on 'Discovering Our Scars'
I think it’s important for people to understand that just because someone has a disability, it doesn’t define them.
Imagine living with a visible disability from a young age—how would it shape your interactions and self-view? This episode of 'Discovering Our Scars' dives into this very topic as hosts Steph and Beth sit down with Emily, a friend who has navigated life with a physical impairment since she was a year old.
Emily opens up about the realities of living with a disability that everyone can see, sharing her experiences with online dating, the impact of a positive attitude, and the sting of being called names like 'goblin'. The conversation is refreshingly honest, tackling what people often say—or avoid saying—when they see someone with a visible disability. Emily's insights reveal much about societal perceptions and the importance of self-advocacy.
She talks about why being open about her disability is crucial, even if it makes others uncomfortable. This episode also touches on an interesting societal quirk: the preference for the term 'handicap' over 'disability' in certain contexts. Steph and Beth add depth to the discussion by sharing their own experiences with learning disabilities, emphasizing the broader need for society to support people with all kinds of disabilities.
They echo Emily's call for personal advocacy and honesty, reminding us that everyone has scars and it's okay to show them. Emily's story is one of resilience and finding joy in life's small moments. Her approach to online dating—filtering out those who aren't supportive or understanding—offers valuable lessons in self-respect and setting boundaries. This episode isn't just for those with disabilities; it's a call to everyone to engage in more open, honest conversations about our differences.
So, whether you're dealing with a disability yourself or know someone who is, this episode offers a heartfelt look at the challenges and triumphs of living visibly different. Tune in for an inspiring chat that encourages you to embrace your own scars and advocate for your needs.