The Family Afterward Part 2: Chris S. and Monty'man's Take on Recovery Dynamics
Whether the family has spiritual convictions or not, they may do well to examine the principles by which the alcoholic member is trying to live.
How does the family fit into the journey of recovery? In this episode of 'Take 12 Recovery Radio', Monty Dale Meyer, also known as the Monty'man, teams up with Chris S. to explore 'The Family Afterward Part 2' from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous. This isn't just another discussion; it's a meticulous, page-by-page examination led by one of the most respected voices in the Twelve Steps community, Chris S.
They dive into why this often-overlooked section is crucial for both the alcoholic and their loved ones. Chris S. sheds light on the principles that alcoholics strive to live by and how these can impact family dynamics, regardless of the family's own spiritual beliefs. He also tackles a common yet tricky subject: the resistance families often have to accepting their role in the recovery process.
Chris emphasizes the dangers of skipping steps and relying solely on meetings without doing the actual work. He stresses the importance of thoroughly qualifying people before sponsoring them and holding them accountable. Adding a touch of humor, he discusses how laughter can be a powerful tool in recovery. Forgiveness, often forgotten but vital, also takes center stage as Chris talks about its importance in healing families affected by addiction.
Ever wondered about the history of smoking and coffee in AA meetings? Chris touches on that too, adding a bit of historical context to this insightful episode. If you're looking to understand more about how families can support recovery and why thorough step work is essential, this episode is a must-listen.