Nelson H.
Nelson H.
Wait, does the golden rule kind of suck?
Wait, does the golden rule kind of suck?
Wait, does the golden rule kind of suck?
Tuesday 25th July 2023
Join Nelson H. on 'LOL Sober' as he rethinks the Golden Rule in making amends, promoting empathy and understanding.
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Get the buttons here!Rethinking Amends: When the Golden Rule Doesn't Fit
Episode Overview
- Challenging the traditional 'do unto others' mantra
- Importance of considering others' preferences in amends
- Encouraging an empathetic approach to interactions
- Reflecting on personal principles and their impact on others
- Promoting understanding and respect for diverse perspectives
A better phrase might be something like do unto others as they would prefer it be done unto them, you know? In other words, go overboard on trying to absorb how someone else likes to be treated and try to meet them closer to that versus how you would like to see it happen.
Ever wondered if the age-old Golden Rule always holds up? In this episode of 'LOL Sober', Nelson H. dives into the nuances of making amends in recovery, challenging the traditional mantra of 'do unto others as you would have them do unto you'. He shares an eye-opening story from a wise old-timer in the sober community who argued that true amends should meet people where they are, rather than imposing our own preferences on them.
Nelson reflects on his own experiences with Steps 8 and 9, emphasizing the importance of empathy and understanding in the process. By questioning the conventional wisdom and encouraging listeners to consider others' needs and perspectives, this episode offers a fresh take on building healthier, more respectful relationships. Whether you're navigating your own recovery journey or supporting someone else, Nelson's insights will leave you thinking about how to approach amends with greater compassion and flexibility.