Roger's Path to Authenticity: Overcoming Fear and Shame
A very big thing about alcoholism is that somehow, if things are different, I'm going to be okay, and if I can manage that somehow to get the job and the life and the dog and the home and the boyfriend, I'm going to be alright. That's not true, and I understood that you know, Years Later, from a lot of my-step practice, this idea of not knowing I'm a little all over the place.
Imagine being a young boy, constantly bullied for being different. That's how Roger's story begins. Growing up as a gay child, he faced relentless torment, which led to a life filled with fear, shame, and a desperate need to belong. By second grade, Roger was already contemplating suicide and had started drinking. His early exposure to alcohol and drugs set the stage for a tumultuous journey ahead.
In this episode of the 'Keep Coming Back Podcast', Roger sits down with host Tara to share his raw and powerful story of recovery. Despite being surrounded by 12-step programs from a young age, it wasn't until his life hit rock bottom that he truly embraced the path to sobriety. Through Alcoholics Anonymous, Roger found not just sobriety but a sense of limitless expansion and connection.
He talks candidly about how AA helped him navigate the complexities of his identity and addiction. One of Roger's most poignant reflections is, 'I didn’t drink because I’m gay, or because my father’s an alcoholic. I drank because I have alcoholism. Period.' This episode isn't just about the struggle; it's about the triumph of embracing one's true self. Roger's journey from self-loathing to self-acceptance is both heart-wrenching and inspiring.
Whether you're in recovery, supporting someone who is, or simply seeking a story of resilience, Roger's experience offers hope and practical insights. Tune in to hear how he transformed his life and found a beautiful force of energy that guides him through the world.