Healing Through Amends: Mark Beebe on Step 8
We make a list because we got to be diligent then about thinking: who are the people that I have hurt? Who have I taken money from along the way? You're not responsible for how they're going to respond, because you don't know how they're going to respond.
Picture this: you're on a journey to recovery, and you're at the point where it's time to mend the broken pieces of your past. In this episode of 'Recovery at Cokesbury', host Mark Beebe delves into the heart of Step 8. This step isn't just about listing those you've hurt; it's about preparing yourself to make amends and heal those fractured relationships. Mark brings his signature blend of empathy and wisdom, making this heavy topic feel approachable and actionable.
He stresses the importance of being thorough and honest when assessing past wrongs, and how making amends can bring a sense of freedom and reduce the risk of relapse. But it’s not just about others. Mark also talks about the critical step of forgiving yourself, shedding the weight of guilt that can hinder your progress. With the guidance of a sponsor, this process becomes a transformative experience, leading to lasting recovery.
Whether you're new to the 12 steps or revisiting them, this episode offers valuable insights and encouragement. Tune in to learn how Step 8 can pave the way for deeper healing and stronger relationships.