Russell S on Step 12: Choosing Discipline Over Regret
Practical experience shows that nothing will so much ensure immunity from drinking as intensive work with alcohols.
Ever wondered how the final step in AA can shape your journey to sobriety? In this episode of Sober Cast, Russell S breaks down Step 12 with a refreshing mix of wisdom and practicality. Recorded at The Triangle Club back in 2013, Russell’s talk dives into the idea of choosing discipline over living with regret. With years of experience conducting 12 Step workshops across the US, Russell offers a unique perspective on the transformative power of service and emotional sobriety.
Russell doesn’t sugarcoat the challenges. He acknowledges that the obsession with drinking can linger but insists it fades over time. The real battle, he argues, is against our own character flaws—whether it’s chasing after fleeting pleasures or constantly judging ourselves. According to Russell, those in AA often possess the mind of a chronic alcoholic, and the antidote lies in prayer, community, and reading the Holy Bible.
He warns against the dangers of self-management, especially for those who’ve been sober for a while. Thinking you’ve got it all figured out can lead to relapse, he cautions. Instead, Russell stresses the importance of leaning on the collective wisdom found in AA meetings and valuing friendships that offer courage and honest feedback. Russell’s message is clear: stop focusing solely on yourself and start contributing to life. Be a good Samaritan every day.
His insights are not just enlightening but also deeply practical, making this episode a must-listen for anyone navigating the rocky path of addiction recovery. Tune in to hear how embracing discipline over regret can pave the way for a more fulfilling, sober life.