Michelle Anderson
Michelle Anderson
Three Ways Addiction Makes Us Feel Like It's Our Fault
Three Ways Addiction Makes Us Feel Like It's Our Fault
Three Ways Addiction Makes Us Feel Like It's Our Fault
Sunday 19th May 2024
Explore how addiction manipulates loved ones into feeling at fault and learn to reclaim your peace of mind with Michelle Anderson's compassionate advice.
8 minutes
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Author:
Michelle Anderson
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Categories:
Sobriety Toolkit
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Family Recovery from Addiction
Understanding Addiction & Recovery
Body & Mind
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Episode Overview
- Addiction often uses passive-aggressive behaviour to manipulate loved ones.
- Denial by the addict can make you feel invalidated and frustrated.
- Teasing and belittling are tactics to undermine your confidence.
- Your actions do not determine their sobriety; it's their choice.
- Focus on reclaiming your strength and not falling for these manipulations.
The truth is we have nothing to do with their sobriety. Truly, we could leave, we could stay, we could change every single trait about ourselves, and they would still need to decide for themselves to commit to a sober life.
Ever felt like you're to blame for a loved one's addiction? This episode of Love Over Addiction is a must-listen. Host Michelle Anderson, speaking candidly from her car while her son practices golf, dives into three common ways addiction makes us feel responsible for someone else's behaviour. With warmth and understanding, Michelle breaks down how passive-aggressive behaviour, denial, and teasing are manipulative tactics used by those struggling with addiction.
She emphasises that no matter what we do—whether we stay, leave, or change ourselves—the decision to get sober lies solely with the person battling addiction. Through relatable anecdotes and practical advice, Michelle encourages listeners to shed the misplaced guilt and recognise their own strength and wisdom. This episode is a blend of heartfelt support and actionable insights, perfect for anyone feeling trapped in the cycle of blame and self-doubt.
It's a gentle reminder that you are not alone, and you are not at fault. Tune in for a dose of compassion and empowerment, and reclaim your peace of mind.