Thomas G. Martin: From Priest Aspirations to Private Investigator Realities
I don't know if it's a gift from god, a gift from my guardian angel or just a gift, but that slows everything down so that you do take care of yourself and you pace it out and you don't rush it, and you don't take shortcuts and you dot your I's, you cross your t's and you make sure you do everything in a methodical way.
Ever wondered what it takes to be a private investigator? Thomas G. Martin might just have the answers. Originally dreaming of becoming a priest, Martin found his true calling in law enforcement. In this episode of 'Showing Up with Asher Gottesman', Martin shares his captivating journey from being a DEA agent to one of the most respected private investigators in the country.
Thomas opens up about his early days as a DEA agent and his unexpected stint training Israeli special forces. But it's his life as a private investigator that truly takes center stage. With candid honesty, he discusses the emotional toll of his job, sharing heart-wrenching stories like a client who became physically ill after seeing footage he had obtained. For those curious about a career in private investigation, Martin offers practical advice.
He stresses the importance of understanding state qualifications and honing strong interview and interrogation skills. He also reflects on the evolving role of women in law enforcement, admitting that his views have changed over time as he witnessed the invaluable contributions of female investigators. Throughout the conversation, Martin emphasizes the need for self-care in such a demanding profession.
He talks about how he quiets his mind and the methods he uses to cope with the stress of his toughest cases, including a murder investigation that still haunts him. This episode isn't just for aspiring private investigators; it's for anyone interested in the complexities of human emotion and resilience. Thomas G. Martin's story is a powerful reminder that even those in seemingly unbreakable professions need to take care of their mental well-being.