Understanding Narcissism and the Enneagram with Thomas Floyd
Narcissism won't let you love. If you are walking around the promised land and you keep passing the same cactus, I believe, if you had some different information, if you had a different way of looking at it, if something internal could shift for you, then not only do you change the other person that you've been chasing, now they have an opportunity to change.
Ever wondered how the Enneagram can shed light on narcissism, especially within church settings? In this episode of 'Flip Your Lid', Kim Honeycutt sits down with Thomas Floyd, a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, to tackle these fascinating topics. With a rich background in mental health counseling and a passion for integrating spirituality into his practice, Thomas brings a unique perspective to the table.
Originally from Santiago, Chile, and fluent in Spanish, he offers a diverse approach to counseling that emphasizes individual emotional and mental health for better relationships and personal growth. Thomas and Kim dive deep into how the Enneagram serves as a powerful tool for self-awareness and spiritual development. They explore how understanding one's Enneagram type can illuminate patterns of behavior, including narcissistic tendencies, and help break cycles of emotional distress.
The conversation also touches on the often-overlooked issue of narcissism within church culture, discussing how it can lead to codependent relationships and spiritual trauma. One of the standout moments in the episode is when Thomas says, "Narcissism won't let you love". This powerful statement underscores the episode's main theme: that self-awareness and inner work are crucial for healing and cultivating healthier relationships.
The discussion is both eye-opening and practical, offering listeners actionable insights into how they can use tools like the Enneagram to foster personal growth and emotional well-being. If you're intrigued by the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and personal development, this episode is a must-listen. It's perfect for anyone looking to understand themselves better and make meaningful changes in their lives.