Sponsorship in Recovery: Dale S. Shares Insights and Challenges
Episode Overview
The conversation delves into the mistakes made during sponsorship and the importance of setting hard and fast lines The significance of establishing a teacher-student hierarchy and the focus on a sponsor's role in leading the alcoholic through the 12 steps Insights into the challenges of emotional involvement and the impact of labels and personality disorders The essentiality of compassion and clarity from a higher power in navigating the sponsorship journey Practical lessons and thought-provoking perspectives for both sponsors and sponsees on the path to recovery
I don't carry the alcoholic; I don't entertain when they call. I can't help you if you're drunk or high. Call me when you're sober. They quit calling me drunk because I'm not talking to them, so they quit. And then at some point, they'll call me when they're sober. - Dale S.
Bill Ward is back with Dale S. for part two of their enlightening conversation on THEUDRCAST. This episode dives deep into the intricacies of sponsorship in recovery, offering a mix of personal stories and practical advice. Dale opens up about the so-called 'mistakes' made during sponsorship and the delicate balance required in the sponsor-sponsee relationship. He emphasizes the need for individualized approaches, drawing inspiration and guidance from one's relationship with a higher power.
The discussion touches on the importance of setting clear boundaries, establishing a mentor-student dynamic, and navigating the emotional hurdles that come with sponsorship. Dale's reflections provide a candid look at the challenges and rewards of guiding someone through the 12-step journey. Whether you're a sponsor, a sponsee, or simply interested in the recovery process, this episode offers valuable insights and heartfelt stories that resonate with anyone on the path to sobriety.