I just can't, I have to, it has to build up, you have to woo me, you have to court me, you know, just on and on and on and on, all this stuff, and I'm just not good at it otherwise, and I know that sounds old-fashioned, and, you know, I was trying to be a progressive, you know, 2020s lady, they used to say 80s lady, but it's not the 80s anymore, so, yeah, I've aged myself quite a bit there, but anyways, you know, just a myriad of things that I can't, I just can't make myself do.