Yitz Epstein
Yitz Epstein
The Secondary Gains Of Narcissistic Abuse
The Secondary Gains Of Narcissistic Abuse
The Secondary Gains Of Narcissistic Abuse
Monday 1st June 2020
Yitz Epstein uncovers the hidden benefits narcissistic abusers gain and offers advice on recognizing and escaping these toxic dynamics. Listen now.
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7 minutes
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Yitz Epstein
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Recovery from Trauma
Healing Relationships
Healing from Sexual Trauma
Spiritual & Personal Growth Journeys
Mindful Recovery
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Get the buttons here!Understanding the Hidden Motivations of Narcissistic Abusers
It is extremely devastating to think that the entire relationship with a narcissistic abuser was to feed the perpetrator's addiction. What seemed like love and care to victims, sadly, was simply feeding a secondary gain they never saw coming.
Ever wondered why narcissistic abusers seem to have an endless supply of manipulative tactics? In this thought-provoking episode of the 'Narcissism Recovery Podcast', Yitz Epstein, a seasoned narcissistic abuse and relationship life coach, unpacks the concept of secondary gains in abusive relationships. These are the hidden benefits that narcissists derive from their victims, beyond the obvious control and power dynamics.
Think of it as a twisted game where the abuser gets perks like status, a dumping ground for their negative emotions, or simply someone to share their misery with. Yitz explains how these secondary gains keep the cycle of abuse going, often without the victim even realizing it. He emphasizes the importance of recognizing these signs and trusting your gut instincts to spot inconsistent behavior and lack of transparency in a relationship.
Forgiving yourself is also crucial in the healing process, allowing you to move on and attract healthier, more respectful partners. If you're grappling with the aftermath of narcissistic abuse, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice to help you reclaim your life.