Unconditional Love: The True Value of Giving Without Expectations
Episode Overview
Unconditional giving leads to deeper, soul-level rewards. Recognise when your help is tied to your own emotional needs. Set healthy boundaries to avoid burnout and resentment. Practice active listening and offer support without trying to fix everything. Start with small acts of kindness with no strings attached.
The biggest lesson I got is the power of unconditional love. There is no power on earth like it.
Kendell Boysen, a professional life and recovery coach, brings a refreshing perspective on life's challenges in this episode of Encouragementology. This time, she's diving into the concept of unconditional giving and its true value. Ever been on the receiving end of an 'I will love you if...' ultimatum? Kendell flips the script, exploring why expecting something in return for your love can leave you feeling empty.
She discusses the profound rewards of giving without any strings attached, highlighting that true love doesn't come with conditions or expectations. Kendell shares personal anecdotes about her own struggles with people-pleasing and how it led her to confuse caring with controlling. She offers practical strategies to help listeners recognise when their giving is tied to their own emotional needs rather than genuine care.
From asking yourself why you're doing something to letting go of outcomes, Kendell's tips are both relatable and actionable. She also delves into the fine line between caring and controlling, urging listeners to reflect on their motives and set healthy boundaries. The episode is peppered with real-life examples and metaphors that make these concepts easy to grasp. By the end, you'll be inspired to practice unconditional love in your own life, starting with small, intentional acts of kindness.
Kendell’s heartfelt advice is a gentle reminder that the best rewards come when you’re not looking for them. Ready to transform your approach to love and giving? This episode is a must-listen for anyone looking to cultivate deeper, more meaningful relationships.