Shayden J. Bertagnolli MS LMFT Anxiety, Relationship, Addiction Specialist
Shayden J. Bertagnolli MS LMFT Men's Mental Health Expert
The Motyv Podcast Episode 4: The selfishness of People Please and the real solution
The Motyv Podcast Episode 4: The selfishness of People Please and the real solution
The Motyv Podcast Episode 4: The selfishness of People Please and the real solution
Wednesday 13th September 2023
Join Shayden J. Bertagnolli and Sadie DeMille as they explore the roots of people-pleasing, its impact on self-worth, and the path to true peace.
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Shayden J. Bertagnolli MS LMFT Anxiety, Relationship, Addiction Specialist
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Episode Overview
- Sadie's passion for working with trauma and sexual abuse is evident throughout the conversation
- The manipulative nature of people-pleasing is explored, shedding light on the underlying anxiety and need for control
- The duo challenges conventional beliefs about self-esteem, liberation, and the role of spirituality in mental health
- Insights into the connection between people-pleasing and self-worth are discussed, emphasizing the importance of recognizing inherent worth and seeking God's love
- The conversation provides a compelling perspective on finding true peace and joy
If love is in there, if you can actually say this demonstrates true love for someone, then you're not going to be people-pleasing.
Have you ever felt like you're constantly bending over backwards to make others happy, only to feel empty inside? In this episode of The Motyv Podcast, host Shayden J. Bertagnolli sits down with therapist Sadie DeMille to unpack the tangled web of people-pleasing. Sadie, who has a deep passion for helping those affected by trauma and sexual abuse, brings her unique perspective to the table.
Together, they peel back the layers of this often misunderstood behavior, revealing how it’s not just about being nice—it’s a form of manipulation driven by anxiety and a need for control. Sadie and Shayden dive into the emotional toll of people-pleasing and its roots in self-worth issues. They challenge the traditional views on self-esteem and explore how recognizing your inherent worth and seeking spiritual fulfillment can pave the way to genuine peace and joy.
If you’ve ever struggled with saying no or felt trapped by the expectations of others, this episode offers a fresh perspective and practical advice on breaking free from the cycle of people-pleasing. Tune in for an enlightening conversation that promises to leave you feeling empowered and ready to embrace your true self.