The Roots of Narcissism: How Childhood Shapes Personality
Narcissists are wounded individuals who experienced having a rejecting, neglecting, smothering, controlling, or dismissive parent. In an attempt to feel adequate after feeling worthless from negative treatment, the child will work tirelessly to be good enough in their parents eyes.
Why do some people become narcissists? Yitz Epstein, host of the 'Narcissism Recovery Podcast', digs into this question by examining the childhood experiences that can shape narcissistic traits. Many narcissists have faced emotional neglect, controlling or dismissive parents, or unrealistic expectations from their caregivers. This often leads to a lifelong struggle to feel 'good enough', driving them to seek validation through accomplishments and the approval of others.
In this episode, Epstein explains how these early wounds manifest as perfectionism, competitiveness, and a constant need for admiration. He also unpacks the cycle of devaluation and discard that often defines relationships with narcissists. Whether you're trying to understand a loved one's behavior or seeking to heal from a narcissistic relationship, this episode offers valuable insights and practical advice for reclaiming your self-worth.