Brenda Zane
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The Influence Paradox: How Giving Up Control Can Give You Sway, with Dr. Emily Kline
The Influence Paradox: How Giving Up Control Can Give You Sway, with Dr. Emily Kline
The Influence Paradox: How Giving Up Control Can Give You Sway, with Dr. Emily Kline
Thursday 6th April 2023
Dr. Emily Kline discusses how letting go of control can help parents connect with their teens using Motivational Interviewing on 'Hopestream'.
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Get the buttons here!The Influence Paradox: Gaining Real Sway by Letting Go, with Dr. Emily Kline
For the parent who's worried that they're not doing anything, a way to reframe. That is to say I'm investing in the relationship, you know, and that's what I'm working on right now, rather than saying I'm not doing anything about the substance use, to say I'm doing something about our terrible relationship that only consists of yelling at two o'clock in the morning.
Ever feel like the more you try to control your teen, the less they listen? You're not alone. In this thought-provoking episode of 'Hopestream', Brenda Zane chats with Dr. Emily Kline about a surprising concept: the Influence Paradox. Dr. Kline, a Harvard-trained expert in mental health and communication, argues that letting go of control can actually give parents more influence over their children. How? Through techniques like Motivational Interviewing and effective communication strategies. Dr.
Kline explains that our instinct to protect and control our kids can backfire, making them more resistant and less likely to heed our advice. Instead, she suggests focusing on building a positive relationship and using skills that encourage open dialogue. This approach doesn't mean giving up or avoiding problems; it's about shifting the way we interact to create a more cooperative and supportive environment. Brenda and Dr. Kline dive into practical tips for parents who want to try this approach.
They discuss how to manage your own emotions, set boundaries with empathy, and use language that fosters connection rather than conflict. If you're struggling with your teen's substance use or just want to improve your relationship, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice. Tune in to learn how letting go of control can actually help you gain real influence and support your child through their challenges.