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Nate and Tommy

  • The Greatest Lie Ever Told in Recovery

The Greatest Lie Ever Told in Recovery

Monday 6th January 2025

Nate & Tommy debunk the myth that you must want sobriety for it to work. Hear real stories from Ciara and Emma about taking action over waiting.
54 minutes
Honest
Engaging
Informative
Supportive
Inspiring

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Bare Knuckle Recovery
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Family Recovery from Addiction
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The Biggest Myth in Recovery: Do You Really Need to Want It?

Episode Overview

  • Recovery requires action, not just desire.
  • Waiting for a loved one to be 'ready' can be counterproductive.
  • Family boundaries and tough love are crucial.
  • Persistence is key, even if initial attempts fail.
  • External pressure and support can lead to breakthroughs.
Recovery is not for those who want it or need it; it's just for those who do it
In this episode of Bare Knuckle Recovery, Nate and Tommy tackle a controversial topic: the greatest lie ever told in recovery. Joined by guests Ciara Bolling and Emma Rosebrock, they discuss the myth that someone must want to get sober for recovery to work. This idea is debunked through personal stories and experiences, highlighting that action, not desire, is the key to sobriety. The episode is filled with raw honesty and humour, making it both engaging and enlightening.
Nate shares wisdom from Dick Boggess, emphasising that recovery is for those who do it, not just those who want or need it. Tommy and Emma provide personal anecdotes, illustrating that waiting for the 'right moment' or a loved one’s readiness can be futile. Instead, taking decisive action, even when it feels premature, can lead to unexpected breakthroughs. Emma recounts her own journey, where repeated attempts and external pressure eventually led to her sobriety.
Her story is a testament to the importance of persistence and support from others, even when the individual isn't fully committed. The hosts and guests also discuss the role of family boundaries and tough love in facilitating recovery, stressing that enabling behaviours can hinder progress. This episode is a must-listen for anyone grappling with addiction or supporting someone who is. It challenges common misconceptions and offers practical advice grounded in real-life experiences.
By the end, you’ll understand why taking action is more critical than waiting for motivation. Ready to rethink what you know about recovery? Dive into this episode for some hard-hitting truths and a dose of inspiration.
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