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The Gift Of Presence (Archive - Episode 1)

Sunday 25th August 2024

Explore how being truly present can transform your relationships and self-awareness in this episode of 'Relational Recovery'.
8 minutes
Informative
Honest
Supportive
Engaging
Authentic

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The Gift of Presence: Transforming Relationships Through Authentic Connection

Episode Overview

  • Being fully present can transform relationships.
  • Self-awareness is crucial for genuine connection.
  • Wearing masks to fit in hinders true presence.
  • Dealing with personal pain helps tolerate others' pain.
  • Practical tips for cultivating presence in everyday life.
If I'm not dealing with my own stuff, I'm not going to be able to tolerate other people's stuff
Have you ever wondered why it's so hard to be truly present in the moment? In this episode of 'Relational Recovery', hosts West Thompson and Austin Hill tackle the elusive concept of presence. They dive into how being fully present can transform your relationships and your own sense of self. Drawing from their experiences at The Refuge Ministry, they explore the idea that the greatest gift we can give others is our 'transformed and transforming presence'.
It’s a bit like trying to catch smoke with your bare hands – tricky but incredibly rewarding when you get it right. West and Austin share personal stories and practical tips on how to cultivate presence in everyday life. They discuss the importance of being comfortable with yourself first – if you can't sit quietly with your own thoughts, how can you be there for someone else?
They also touch on the common habit of wearing masks to fit in, which only hinders genuine connection. The duo emphasises that being present isn’t just about showing up physically; it’s about engaging fully, whether you’re in a deep conversation or working side by side on a project. One standout moment is when they talk about the challenge of tolerating others' pain if you haven’t dealt with your own.
It's a raw and honest look at how self-awareness and self-acceptance are crucial steps towards being fully present. They also bring a touch of humour, making this heavy topic more relatable and easier to digest. If you’ve ever felt disconnected from those around you or struggled with being in the moment, this episode offers valuable insights and actionable advice.
Tune in to learn how to stop living in a dream state and start appreciating the journey of life by being present with yourself and others.