Coyote Ugly and Daddy Issues: A Stripper's Guide to Healing and Justice
And the path to justice is actually- I believe this in my fucking heart- a sweet path that is pleasurable and that can be pleasurable.
Ever wondered why the term 'daddy issues' stirs such strong feelings? In this episode of 'A Stripper's Guide', Leilah Feinstein and her guest, Tanesha (also known as Fecund Maiden), tackle this often-misunderstood topic. Using the early 2000s cult classic 'Coyote Ugly' as a springboard, they dive into the complexities behind the phrase and its roots in emotional struggles like codependency and role reversal.
You don't need to have seen the movie to get something out of this discussion – it's all about understanding the deeper issues at play. Leilah and Tanesha don't just stick to theory. They bring a fresh perspective to how patriarchal views and the male gaze impact women and femmes, whether they're in the sex industry or not.
The conversation shifts from the film's portrayal of these themes to real-life implications, making it relatable for anyone who's ever felt judged or controlled based on their appearance or behavior. The episode also explores the portrayal of sex workers in media and pop culture, challenging stereotypes and advocating for a more nuanced understanding. It's not just about pointing out problems but also about finding paths to healing and justice.
Leilah passionately believes that the journey to justice can be a sweet and pleasurable one, filled with community support and self-love. From yoga to occult practices, the hosts discuss various ways to reclaim personal power and create sacred spaces for healing. This episode is a blend of humor, serious discourse, and heartfelt moments, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in unpacking deep-seated issues and dismantling oppressive systems.