Understanding Boundary Victims: Navigating Difficult Relationships with Mandy Friedman
The boundary victim is the person who is allergic to boundaries and you're trying really hard to establish healthy interactions and they really have this negative visceral response when you try to set a boundary
Ever tried setting boundaries with someone, only to face intense resistance? Mandy Friedman LPCC-S, a licensed counselor and trauma expert, tackles this exact challenge in this episode of 'SNAP: Survivors of Narcissistic & Abusive Personalities'. Mandy dives into the complex behavior of 'boundary victims'—individuals who react negatively when boundaries are set. She unpacks why these reactions occur and offers practical advice on managing such interactions.
You'll hear about common manipulative tactics like deflection and smear campaigns, and why explaining your boundaries to these individuals often falls flat. Mandy also highlights the critical role of self-care and shares resources from the SNAP Educational Recovery Program. Whether you're a survivor of narcissistic abuse or trying to support someone who is, this episode provides essential insights and strategies to help you navigate these tough situations.