Sober Love: Kelly and Greg on Boundaries and Recovery
It would seem to me that, particularly if the other person is in aa, then you're talking about the steps, you're talking about how you're working the steps, and then the other person almost becomes the sponsor and can become your higher power.
What does it take to keep a marriage strong while both partners are on their own sobriety journeys? Kelly and Greg, a sober married couple, open up about their unique experiences in this episode. They share candidly about the importance of waiting a year to date and how that decision helped them build a solid foundation for their relationship. Their story is filled with practical advice on setting boundaries around individual recovery while supporting each other.
This isn't just about love; it's about mutual respect and understanding the need for personal space even in a committed relationship. In addition to Kelly and Greg's heartfelt discussion, the episode also features a fun segment where Don and Sam challenge each other with a quiz on the Big Book. Adding to the mix, Professor Chris recounts how his involvement in community theater eventually led him to AA.
It's a blend of serious insights and light-hearted moments that make this episode both engaging and informative. Kelly's perspective is particularly eye-opening. She mentions how talking about the steps with a partner in AA can sometimes blur the lines between being a supportive spouse and becoming a sponsor. This dynamic, she notes, requires careful navigation to ensure both partners maintain their own recovery paths.
Whether you're in a relationship or single, their story offers valuable lessons on balancing love and sobriety.