Breaking Free from the 4 Ms: Erika and Spencer's Journey in Episode 84
I think it should be worked out and that all goes back to that higher power piece, that trusting that the person heard me and will make the decision that's best for them and that I will get what I need.
Ever felt like you're juggling too many roles, especially when it comes to a loved one struggling with addiction? In this eye-opening episode of 'The Recovery Show', hosts Erika and Spencer dive into the 4 Ms: Manipulation, Managing, Mothering, and Martyrdom. These behaviors often become second nature for those who love alcoholics or addicts, but they can lead to even more complications and heartache.
Erika and Spencer open up about their personal battles with these tendencies and how Al-Anon's 12-step program has guided them towards a more serene life. They touch on the importance of trusting a higher power, understanding the illusion of control, and learning to detach with love. The duo also discusses the role of compassion and how to handle triggers that can set you back.
You'll hear about different types of Al-Anon meetings and how they can offer unique support tailored to your needs. Whether you're new to recovery or have been on this path for a while, this episode offers practical advice and heartfelt stories that can help you navigate your own journey.