Jake and J'

Stressful, but Successful

Jake and J'

  • The 12 Steps

The 12 Steps

Wednesday 30th March 2022

Join Jake and J' as they candidly discuss their frustrations with the 12-step program and share insights on balancing recovery with life.
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88 minutes
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About this podcast

Stressful, but Successful
Author:
Jake and J'
Overview:
Categories:
Recovery from Trauma
Sobriety Success Stories
Healing Relationships
Financial Health in Recovery
Creative Recovery Journeys
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Jake and J's Unfiltered Take on the 12 Steps: Real Talk About Recovery

It's ok to venture out and see what happens. Maybe I'm not an addict, maybe you're not, and that's not you to judge. But in our program, that we work, that's what we believe.
Jake and J', two chefs turned podcast hosts, are back with another episode of 'Stressful, but Successful'. This time, they dive deep into their experiences with the 12-step program for substance abuse recovery. These friends, who have been on the road to recovery for nearly five years, share their candid thoughts and frustrations about the program they follow. Jake opens up about his skepticism towards the 12-step meetings.
He understands their purpose but feels a constant, invisible pressure to attend them. This phantom pressure makes him question his commitment, even though he knows the program is crucial for his recovery. J' counters Jake's doubts by emphasizing the importance of attending meetings, doing step work, and being of service. According to J', these elements are vital for staying on the path to recovery.
The conversation takes a turn as they discuss the need for setting boundaries and accepting personal limitations. Jake admits that he feels like he's just lying down if he's not continually pushing himself to do more and be better. Yet, he also acknowledges the importance of being realistic about his capabilities. They both agree that boredom can be a dangerous trigger for relapse and stress the importance of 'playing the tape forward'—a technique to foresee the consequences of one's actions.
This episode is a raw and honest discussion about the challenges of sticking to a 12-step program. Jake and J' offer a unique perspective on balancing recovery with other aspects of life. Their conversation is filled with genuine insights and practical advice for anyone navigating the complexities of recovery. Tune in to hear their journey and maybe find some comfort in knowing you're not alone in your struggles.