Giving Voice to Recovery

Giving Voice to Recovery

Giving Voice to Recovery

  • Surrender to Win - Delusions of Control

Surrender to Win - Delusions of Control

Thursday 25th January 2024

Elizabeth shares her journey of overcoming control issues in codependency, offering insights and tools for healthier relationships.
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Letting Go to Thrive: Elizabeth on Control and Codependency

Episode Overview

  • Codependency and the manifestation of control in relationships
  • Understanding the triggers of control: fear and low self-esteem
  • Empowering language and tools for supporting others
  • The transformative power of self-control and its impact on relationships
  • Navigating challenges and finding happiness through self-awareness
When you're controlling other people, you're investing all your energy into something you have no control over. So, hmm, what a big waste when you could be taking that energy and controlling yourself, controlling how you might respond to something that might be challenging instead of trying to control somebody so that challenging thing doesn't happen. See, I can't control what another person does.
Ever thought you had control over others, only to realize it was just an illusion? In this episode of 'Giving Voice to Recovery', Elizabeth takes us on a personal journey through her song 'Surrender to Win'. She candidly shares how her belief in controlling others was a coping mechanism that ultimately held her back. Elizabeth's story reveals how letting go of this need for control allowed her relationships to flourish and her creativity to soar.
Drawing from her long-term recovery from addiction and codependency, Elizabeth talks about the triggers that lead to control issues, such as fear and low self-esteem. She explains how understanding the difference between influencing others and trying to control them can be a game-changer in relationships. By learning to listen and accept people as they are, Elizabeth found a newfound freedom and happiness. This episode isn't just about Elizabeth's story; it's packed with practical advice.
She discusses the importance of using supportive language that empowers rather than dictates. Her compassionate approach offers hope and encouragement for anyone struggling with similar challenges. If you're dealing with codependency or control issues, this episode provides valuable insights and tools to help you find balance and joy in your relationships.