Counsellor A.J. Mahari
A.J. Mahari
Stop The Cycle of Bpd's Using You As An Atm and a Vending Machine
Stop The Cycle of Bpd's Using You As An Atm and a Vending Machine
Stop The Cycle of Bpd's Using You As An Atm and a Vending Machine
Saturday 18th May 2024
Join A.J. Mahari as she reveals how to escape the exhausting cycle of BPD relationships and reclaim your sense of self.
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Counsellor A.J. Mahari
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Healing Relationships
Navigating Intimate Relationships
Recovery from Trauma
Navigating Challenges in Recovery
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Episode Overview
- Understand the damaging cycle of codependency in BPD relationships
- Explore how codependents become enablers for BPD partners
- Learn about trauma bonding and its impact on emotional well-being
- Discover the importance of setting boundaries and reclaiming self-identity
- Find out how seeking professional help can aid in healing and breaking free from toxic relationship patterns
You're their bank account. You're their vending machine. You're their ATM. Like a real bank account, you can't just withdraw and never deposit. These relationships deplete you.
Ever felt like you're stuck in an endless loop with a partner who has Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)? In this eye-opening episode, A.J. Mahari, a seasoned Counselor and Trauma Recovery Coach, dives into the exhausting cycle where codependents often find themselves acting like 'ATMs and vending machines' for their BPD partners. Mahari's empathetic yet straightforward approach sheds light on how these relationships can drain you emotionally and mentally, leaving you feeling empty and lost.
Mahari doesn't just highlight the problems; she offers practical advice on how to break free from these toxic patterns. She explores the concept of 'relationship recycling,' where couples repeatedly break up and get back together, each time losing a bit more of themselves. If you're someone who constantly feels depleted and unappreciated in your relationship, this episode is a must-listen.
With over 30 years of experience, Mahari brings a wealth of knowledge to help you understand the underlying issues that keep you trapped. She talks about the importance of recognizing your own codependency and how it plays into the dynamics of your relationship. Through real-life examples and actionable steps, Mahari guides you on a journey to reclaim your identity and build healthier relationships.
Whether you're still in the throes of a BPD relationship or trying to make sense of its aftermath, this episode offers invaluable insights. It's not just about surviving; it's about thriving and rediscovering yourself. So, if you're ready to stop being an emotional ATM and start living for yourself, tune in and take the first step towards healing.